Steps

  1. Set the guest count and ask about allergies and foods people avoid when you invite.
  2. Choose one main that is filling, inexpensive and hands-off, such as chili, a tray bake or a pasta bake.
  3. Do the math: about a half pound of the main's protein per adult, plus a grain or bread and a salad.
  4. Say yes when guests offer; ask one for a salad, one for dessert, one for drinks.
  5. Write the timeline backward from serving time and cook the main ahead if it reheats well.
  6. Set the table and put out water and a simple snack before anyone arrives.
  7. Serve family style from the pans to save dishes, and sit down with your guests.

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